"How to Make Friends and Influence
People"
by
Dale Carnegie
Handling People
- Don't criticize, condemn or complain
- Give honest and sincere appreciation
- Arouse in the other person an eager want
Six Ways to Make People Like You
- Become genuinely interested in other people
- Smile
- Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest
and most important sound in any language
- Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about
themselves.
- Talk in terms of the other person's interests
- Make the other person feel important and do it sincerely
Win People to Your Way of Thinking
- The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it
- Show respect for the other person's opinions. Never say,
"You're wrong."
- If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically
- Begin in a friendly way
- Get the other person saying, "yes" immediately
- Let the other person do a great deal of the talking
- Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers
- Try honestly to see things from the other person's point of
view
- Be sympathetic with the other person's ideas and desires
- Appeal to their nobler motives
- Dramatize your ideas
- Throw down a challenge
Be a Leader
- Begin with praise and honest appreciation
- Call attention to peoples' mistakes indirectly
- Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other
person
- Ask questions instead of giving direct orders
- Let the other person save face
- Praise the slightest improvement and praise every improvement
- Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to
- Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct.
- Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest
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